“love ya” – a post by guest blogger Robert Gary

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Somewhere along the way we lost focus of our wives. Somewhere we neglected to include our spouses in our “lives.” Oh sure, they are still with us and we see them most every day. We may even give them a quick kiss on the lips of cheek and a well rehearsed “love ya” as we
rush out the door but where’s the “I gotta have you” feelings?Read More

When it’s the little things that are destroying your marriage

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Whether we want to admit it or not, it starts with the little things and grows from there. The “big” offense is usually padded with something like, “well, he’s so irresponsible anyway, I have to find his wallet for him ever single day.”Read More

When My Love Isn’t Enough, by guest blogger ~ Messy Marriage

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I’m so excited to introduce Beth from Messy Marriage. She was kind enough to share my Love Series on her blog and I asked if I could do the same and share one (or maybe more) of her posts on my blog. She graciously agreed (thank you Beth) <3Read More

The two words you should always never use

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Unless she really does spend ALL the money, stop saying it. Unless he really doesn’t ever want to spend any time with you, stop telling him that. Who would want to spend time with someone who keeps insisting they don’t care?Read More

Why getting even never makes it even

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If you want your marriage to work, you have to work at it. If he doesn’t do the things you need him to do, talk to him, don’t try to even the score. If she isn’t helping you the way you need her to, sit her down and talk like adults. Sulking in the den isn’t ever going to fix your marriage.Read More

Satan is the 3rd wheel in marriage

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Satan only needs to destroy marriage and he can bring down the entire Church, and if you don’t believe me, turn on the TV. Look at what we’re teaching our children about marriage. Read More

Marriage was meant for so.much.more

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This is just my opinion, but a lot {i.e., most} of our problems in our marriage is our own stupid fault. It’s called expectation. Before you click onto someone else’s blog, allow me to illustrate.
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Stop American Censorship

On Wednesday Jan. 18th thousands of sites will go dark to protest SOPA & PIPA, two US bills racing through Congress that threaten prosperity, online security, and freedom of expression. Visit American Censorship or SOPA Strike for more information. For the record, I want to stop …Read More

Why the way we handle our marriage affects everything else

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Note to self: When God uses the word HATE… pay attention. hello? That doesn’t require an Amen, it requires a duh…. Seriously.Read More

How marriage can be a lot like a chocolate chip cookie

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If you forget to add the chocolate chips to your recipe, the seemingly “flagship” ingredient, it will not destroy your recipe. Will it be a chocolate chip cookie? No. But it will still be a cookie, and a good one, albeit chocolate-less. Read More